Wendy’s 50th Birthday Medley

Today is a very special day because it was 50 years ago today (8:34AM to be exact) that my oldest daughter, Wendy, was born.

It has been a ride which has gone by much too fast. I don’t want to use an old cliche like “where did the time go?” but yeah, where did the time go? She has created a life filled with special memories, all while radiating joy to those who have come across her path.

I have watched her grow from an inquisitive little girl, fascinated with nature and music, into a women filled with compassion for others; a woman who proudly stands up against bullying, racism and discrimination.
I have watched her grow from a straight A student into an A+ teacher who inspires her students with praise, understanding and love.


She has given me two beloved grandchildren; Dylan and Erin. The life lessons she taught them as young children resulted in two extraordinary adults who captured my heart a long time ago.

I cannot begin to express the amount of respect I have for her and how proud she makes me. She is more than a daughter. She is also one of my best friends, someone I can always count on. Wendy has been a shining light during moments of darkness in my life and I thank God for her every single day of the year.

She is often referred to as my “Beatle Baby” because of her love of my favorite band, but truth be told, she has, over the years, developed a love of so many genres and so, so many diverse musical performers. They included Glen Campbell, Michael Jackson, Prince, Tom Petty, and (sigh ❤️) Andy Gibb.

My first instinct was to play a medley by some of those artists but with the extraordinary help of Erin, I have decided to play a medley by Taylor Swift, a singer Wendy and Erin both love. It was Erin who decided on the song order and I suspect she saved the best song for last because that is exactly how she feels about her mother.

So do I. ❤️

Your Memories … That’s What We’re All About

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Wendy’s 50th Birthday Medley

Comments (16)

  1. Don Doyle

    Good Morning, Ray and HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Wendy. What a special day and great way to start the week and month! What a great choice in Taylor Swift to help you celebrate your day. She is such a talented, independent woman and great role model. I think it’s great when you find an artist who exemplifies your ideas and goals. Almost better than a best friend because you can turn to the music at any time, day or night, to reenforce or refocus your feelings and goals.
    Wendy you are fortunate indeed to have a Dad who adores you and a bonus of two great kids. You were correct a while ago when you said that I could recognize the special relationship you have with your Dad because I have the same thing with my daughter. So yes, I get it. I understand the bond you two have. It is extra special so just revel in it today and everyday.
    Wendy, I love the way your Dad loves you and how you reflect that love right back to him. Treasure every moment. Have the best Birthday ever.

    1. Ray (Post author)

      Good morning, Don.
      Thank you so much for the beautiful words. You and I are both very lucky Dads and I know how very special your relationship with Victoria is. It is a wonderful feeling. ❤️

    2. Wendyl

      Thank you, Don! Taylor is a favorite around here, that’s for sure! I enjoy reading your comments and see how you and Daddy are also so connected through music. I feel so glad to know of another Dad and Daughter Duo because I know just how wonderful it is! Thanks for the bday wishes and support!

  2. Wendyl

    Oh my goodness…as I’ve always said, I have the Sweetest Daddy EVER! Now of course, I suspected there would be a birthday medley but I had NO idea that you and Erin were in kahoots! You chose to play Taylor Swift on your oldies site just for me! She actually woke up as I hit play and we listened to it together! I am absolutely gifted with the love and familiarity of so many wonderful and diverse types of music. That absolutely began with you, literally right there with you at your side listening to your music which became my music. You always supported my own tastes in music as I grew older too. I value the way music connected Us. When I saw my own daughter grow into a fan (understatement) of Taylor Swift, I knew I had an opportunity. I grew to love her quite easily and watch how her music influenced Erin. Just like you and I connected through music, Erin and I (Dylan too!) have as well. In a way, it feels like a circle or something so smooth and easy and comforting. Music makes me happy! Thank you for giving me that gift oh so long ago and until this very day! You are the most thoughtful, loving and supportive Daddy I could have ever asked for! I love you beyond measure and I thank you for this 50th birthday medley! 🙂 XOXOXOXO 🙂

    1. Ray (Post author)

      Happy Birthday, Wendyl ❤️
      We are certainly connected through music but there is so much more to US. I hope you understand the impact you have had on my life. The times I come across as strong and confident are quite often the times you have dropped me a short note just to say hi, adding words of encouragement just when I need them the most.
      You are so special, so special.
      Erin deserves so much credit for this medley. I asked for her help and she came through … Big Time! ❤️
      Happy Birthday, Sunshine. The world is your oyster, today and every day.
      ❤️XOXOXOXO❤️

      1. Wendyl

        We have always been there for each other and we always will be! 143

        1. Ray (Post author)

          ❤️ Always ❤️

  3. Suzanne Murray

    Okay, first let me say.. I sat here and read all the comments above, and have tears in my eyes. The connection you have to each other is beyond words and that is obvious to even those of us who have never met Wendy face to face. That being said, I feel like I have known her all of her life…. Ray, you and I go back a very long way and it has been a true joy to hear about your love and connections to Wendy (and the rest of your family). Music certainly has always transported us all to moments in time and it is important to have someone that we love so deeply, be there in those moments, happy or sad. Wendy, again, I wish you the happiest of birthdays and may you have many wonderful and memorable moments. What a way to start the day! <3

    1. Ray (Post author)

      Thank you, Suzanne ❤️
      It is a very special connection. I admit being very fortunate.
      Yes, you and I do go back a long way. I think I had brown hair back then. 🙂
      Your comments to Wendy are very touching and I’m sure she will appreciate them.

    2. Wendyl

      Suzanne, Thanks for you beautiful comment and sweet birthday wishes! I feel like I know you too even though we’ve never met in person. It certainly was a nice way to start the day. That sweet Daddy of mine always makes me feel so special!

  4. Penny

    What a great pick for Wendy’s special day! Kuddos to you and Erin. Taylor Swift is very talented, driven and giving! Another wonderful memory for you and Wendy to share …… you and the bond you share is such a beautiful thing to see and will shine forever!! Bless you both and a very happy birthday Wendy!!!

    1. Ray (Post author)

      Thank you so much, Penny ❤️
      Wendy and I have shared so many special memories and this medley becomes the latest. Thank you for your beautiful comments. ❤️

    2. Wendyl

      Thank you, Penny! Glad you enjoyed the tunes. They teamed up and certainly surprised me! I am a lucky (50 year old) girl for I have immense love in my family! Thank you for the birthday wishes!

  5. fred

    Ray I am so happy for you and Wendy to have such love for each other!! Wendy I feel so proud to say I know you!! And I remembered that you liked Taylor Swift and how fun!! Great tunes for your day!! Such a bond is so great to see and I have enjoyed how you two share your love!! Another great day Ray!!

    1. Ray (Post author)

      Thank you, Sir Fred 🙂
      Wendy and you have a wonderful relationship, one that she cherishes. ❤️
      I appreciate the kind words, today and always, my friend.

    2. Wendyl

      Thanks, Fred! You and I go way back to the early days of streamingoldies.com! As well as making connections through song lyrics, we are also connected through the love of great oldies and the guy who plays them for us too! Thanks for your kind bday wishes!

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